The first meeting with the parents of the partner is in love for many a horror. Will they like me?
About what are we to talk? What they say about my hairstyle? Especially young people are often helpless against this "first time".
Who prepares and observes a few rules need to visit with the parents-in-law do not fear, however.
The first date with the in-laws
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Not to be cool
In making "cool" to like arriving at their own mates, but not guaranteed to the parents of a friend or girlfriend. One should not completely bend while to adjust - a little bit as a guest but has said the psychologist Bernard Broekman from Wiesbaden.
Small Talk
Those who remain silent as a fish, for a dinner can be long. So, talk! Topics such as weather or the food always go - but be careful discussions about politics, religion or sex.
Abchecken
Be patterned from the parents must take it as a guest in purchasing. "It's a bit like a job interview," says couples therapist Cologne Manuel Tusch. The parents are ultimately the best for a son or daughter. Take account of questions of professional objectives must be so.
Being open
Even if you can tell at first glance, no common ground with the "parents" - perhaps the father is just like you once played in a band or read about the mother of your favorite thriller.
Preparing
Even the "representer" should consider some things: My friend has a Punkerfrisur and a nose piercing? Warn before your parents.
Together
Who is on the platter, can not be left alone. Ie: If your mother makes fun of the hairstyle of her friend, you should protect him.
